So, my girlfriend getting the divorce (who will probably be done with telling me things after she sees all of her business on here for all to know) wants to know how, after almost 10 years of marriage, does she get her sexy back. We all know that as women we can quickly loose our selves in taking care of our men and children and its easy to get real comfortable with everyday life. She feels that she is "not sexy anymore." Now, most of this is just coming from the emotions associated with the divorce, but it is easy for us to loose our sexiness. Well, I don't think we ever loose it, but its easy for us to loose the "feeling of sexiness."
So, what is sexy? Like beauty, I believe it is in the eye of the beholder. To be sexy, you have got to feel sexy and believe you are sexy. I truly don't believe that men have an exact definition of sexy. Now I agree, they like certain areas of our bodies and those are probably what they think of when you ask them about sexy, but I truly believe that any woman can be sexy and a man will see them as sexy if made to believe same.
How does a woman become or feel sexy? First, you have got to feel good about yourself. Once you are totally comfortable with you, or can totally pretend you are comfortable with you, the way you walk and talk will give off a certain confidence that is sexy. Next, you have got to dress sexy. No, not sleazy, just sexy (LOL). Now, what that means totally depends on you. It should be something that you are comfortable in or again, can pretend you are comfortable in and something that highlights your positives (can be clothing, a pair of heels or just some hot red lipstick). Finally, a little flirting is always good for the sole and never hurt anyone. If you can pull all of this off in one setting, you will be sexy and more importantly you will feel sexy.
What do you think? How does she get her sexy back?
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